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This podcast was inspired by the ICF Executive and Leadership Coaching Community of Practice's 2023 video "Coaching in Crisis - Second Order Coaching with Tom Kolditz."
In an era where navigating through crisis is the new normal for both leaders and individuals, understanding how to coach our clients through these unique challenges is important for professional coaches across all areas of specialization.
Many of the insights we’re sharing in this podcast episode come to us from the work of Tom Kolditz, the Director of the Ann and John Doerr Institute for New Leaders at Rice University–a comprehensive, evidence-based, university-wide leader development program. His work is not just about theories but practical strategies for effective leadership in crisis situations, and his insights stand out as a beacon for those guiding others through tumultuous times.
While much of this language surrounds the work of business leaders, there are deep insights here for coaches looking to expand their repertoire and work with different kinds of clients who are facing crises.
Leaders Need Coaching When Faced With a Crisis
Leadership coaching under pressure is less about theoretical knowledge and more about action. Leaders face a unique set of challenges in crisis situations, making it crucial for coaches to focus on practical and effective guidance in order to meet the challenges of the day.
Key Aspects of Leadership in Crisis
Empirical Approach: There is a lack of empirical data in crisis leadership, making it difficult to research as a field. By taking stock of the experiences of soldiers in war zones and studying leaders in dangerous sports, we can gather a more reality-based perspective on leadership effectiveness in extreme situations.
Understanding Needs: A pivotal role of a leader in crisis is to understand what their team needs from them. It's about moving beyond mere tactics to a deeper comprehension of team dynamics and needs. Coaching skills such as active listening and asking powerful questions comes into play here.
Motivation vs. Calm Confidence: In crisis, the traditional notion of motivation takes a backseat. Leaders need to adopt a stance of quiet confidence, focusing more on listening and understanding the team's feelings and thoughts in order to operate effectively.
Building Up Trust and Competence
Leadership in times of crisis is not just a mental or strategic challenge; it's a physical one. Leaders must reduce the social distance with their teams, demonstrating their own involvement and showing that they also have “skin in the game”.
The most influential leadership quality in a crisis is competence. Leaders build trust by showing their capability to navigate through tough times. That capacity (and competence) can be built over time. A leader's loyalty to their team is paramount. Understanding and addressing team concerns in an honest way fosters a trustful environment where team members feel valued, in the know, and not disposable.
Role of Coaches in Developing Crisis Leaders
Coaches play a crucial role in shaping leaders for effectively handling crisis situations. From fostering authenticity to helping leaders figure out how to be physically present and supportive, coaches are instrumental in developing strong leaders who can guide their organizations safely through a crisis – whether it’s financial, circumstantial or an outside threat.
Understanding the Ring Theory in Crisis Management
The Ring Theory offers a profound framework for offering comfort and support in times of crisis. Imagine a series of concentric circles surrounding the crisis, with those most affected at the center.
At the heart of the crisis are those directly impacted, forming the innermost ring. As one moves outward, each successive ring represents people less directly affected by the crisis.
Those in the inner rings, closer to the crisis, should have the freedom to express their feelings and vent without judgment. This makes sense as they are having a direct experience of the crisis.
The primary role of those in the outer rings is to provide help, understanding and support – not advice or judgment.This means prioritizing listening over speaking and refraining from giving unsolicited advice.
Coaches are on the outside ring, which means lots of active listening while providing support and acknowledging the emotional experiences of those most affected.
By focusing on practical strategies, understanding the human element in crisis leadership, and providing much-needed support, coaches can empower all clients to navigate through their toughest challenges, and emerge with greater confidence and competence.
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